Gil Mitzvah גיל מצוה

Gil Mitzvah is the Hebrew term for the Age of Mitzvah.  Becoming a bar, bat, or b‑mitzvah is one of the most meaningful milestones in Jewish life. It marks a young person’s growing sense of responsibility, connection, and belonging within the Jewish community. Each student’s journey is unique, and every celebration is crafted to reflect their personality, learning style, and spiritual path.

My goal is to help every student—regardless of gender identity, sexual orientation, or family background—feel deeply seen, supported, and celebrated. Together, we’ll create an experience that honors both the ancient tradition and each learner’s individuality, ensuring the ceremony speaks to who they truly are.

Learning and Preparation

Bar, bat, and b‑mitzvah preparation is about more than learning to chant Torah or lead prayers—it’s about exploring what it means to live Jewishly and meaningfully in today’s world. Each student receives individualized instruction tailored to their skills, comfort level, and schedule. Our sessions focus on building confidence in Hebrew reading, understanding the Torah portion, and finding personal relevance in its message.

We also discuss core Jewish ideas—values like justice, kindness, gratitude, and community—and how they can guide the student’s own life. Whether in person or online, lessons are warm, interactive, and grounded in encouragement. Families are included throughout the process, ensuring that preparation becomes a shared and memorable journey.

Celebrating the Moment

When the big day arrives, the celebration reflects both tradition and the student’s own spirit. Some families choose a synagogue service, while others prefer smaller or more creative settings—at home, outdoors, or in another meaningful place. Whatever the setting, the experience is joyful, inclusive, and infused with pride.

Together, we’ll craft a ceremony that celebrates accomplishment, connection, and belonging—a moment that your family will carry forward with gratitude and joy for years to come.

Begin the Journey

If you’re beginning to think about your child’s bar, bat, or b‑mitzvah, I’d love to connect. We can talk about what’s most important to your family, explore different options for study and ceremony, and create a plan that feels supportive, meaningful, and joyful from start to finish.

You can reach out to me through the contact page to start the conversation. I look forward to helping you and your family mark this extraordinary milestone together.